How to make a Woman Cum on Demand: Anchoring a Woman to Orgasm

Alright guys I went over all those blogs to get to Anchoring a woman to orgasm. Enjoy making your sexual partner cum as often as you want!

Anchor a Woman to Orgasm

In NLP and Hypnosis you learn about anchoring. Anchoring is when you get someone to repeat a behavior based on a trigger or stimulus. A lot of people don’t think of anchoring when it comes to sex, they think of things like anchoring someone to lift their hand when you say a word like “hammer”, every time you say “hammer” the person without reason lifts their arm. Anchoring is an everyday occurrence and really is just something that happens naturally through conditioning.

Pavlov’s Dog

The perfect example of conditioning and Anchoring is the experiment with Pavlov. Pavlov would ring a bell every time he fed his dog at the same time of day, the dog would start to eat with the sound of a bell. Well what Pavlov discovered was that even when the dog wasn’t eating when he rang the bell the dog started salivating as if he was eating.  This dog was anchored to salivating to the ring of a bell simply by the conditioning of feeding him when he rang a bell. This was called a conditioning reflex, or anchor as they call it in NLP.

What You Need to Anchor a Woman

In order to anchor a woman you do need a few skills among the skills you need to understand that a woman’s orgasm is purely cerebral. You can’t make her cum if you don’t have her mind. Here is the blog I wrote that should help prepare you.

You will need to understand how to give a woman multiple orgasms, the blog above will help you but it is important that you gain sexual confidence through experience and research. I don’t know of any man that gave a woman 20 orgasms his first time, most of us don’t give any. You need to learn about sex (mentally and physically) as well as the female anatomy to get good at sex.

Last of all you need to know when a woman cums, you gain that through experiences, and reading body language. You just learn to recognize a woman’s Orgasm tells.

How to Anchor

Now once you know how to give a girl multiple orgasms and when she has one, then all you have to do is consistently whisper and/or stimulate her in the way to set the trigger/anchor at the point of orgasm. In some cases you can hold their hand at the same time, rub their elbow, bite them, whatever. Then all you have to do is consistently do the action with them while saying your line and/or stimulating her in a certain way, until you train them.

1. Figure out your Anchor (whether that is words, a stimulation, or both)
2. Get a woman near Orgasm
3. Use anchor(stimulus) at Orgasm
4. Repeat steps 2 and 3 several times. Keep in mind this is a conditioned response and thus takes time to create a strong anchor.

With more than one woman I use to say a phrase right as they were climaxing and about to cum, people tend to listen when they are in a pleasurable trance (such as pre-orgasm), sexual trance makes women suggestible. I just did this several times while they were cumming, I do mean several times like 10+ times.

Note: Make sure not to do it every orgasm or it could link to an orgasm unfairly to the girl, she won’t be able to cum without it.

I recommend giving a woman orgasm through multiple forms of stimulation, this means making her cum by way of oral sex, masturbation, and sex. When you anchor a woman you should make sure to stimulate her in multiple manners, I try and make sure I give a woman multiple orgasms even before sex. Orgasms are pretty consecutive so if you already have her cumming repeatedly when you switch to sex orgasms just cum one after another. The more possible forms of stimulation giving her orgasm the more you link her to just having a general orgasm.

Don’t knock it until you Try it

If you don’t believe me try it out. Like I said you need to be able to give a woman multiple orgasms, these anchoring sessions take place over hours, sometimes even multiple sessions. It’s not a given and it requires effort but the process is a simple conditioning response. If you got any questions ask.