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Difficult background? The Things other people get to do, don’t apply
By Kingy PUA, who teaches at PUA London
Drinking beer, smoking, watching TV, eating fast food, being lazy, doing drugs, going on Facebook; if you after GLORY and you’ve had a difficult background, then these things are out of bounds to you. FOREVER!
Do you get anxiety? Do you doubt yourself? Do you get shy? Do you get sick often? Do you have a strained relationship with your parent/s? Do you feel unloved? Did you get your first girlfriend over the age of eighteen? If some of these questions are true then you unfortunately you don’t get to do the slacker privileges, I listed above.
The man who had a great childhood and an easy upbringing can possibly do these things and get away with it. If you didn’t have that greater upbringing and you want to have a great girlfriend and life then you don’t get to do them.
I have a few friends who had amazing upbringings, parents always telling them how proud they are of them and how much they love them. They received encouragement, praise and healthy foods. These friends unsurprisingly turned out confident, calm and positive. If like me you didn’t get that perfect upbringing (through no fault of my parents), then like me you are going to have to work hard.
People with a happy upbringing carry less negative emotions, such as anger, guilt, shame and fear. A happy healthy mind and body creates a lot less sickness and requires a lot less energy to run. Happy people can work long days, are very focused, rarely get sick, have high self-esteem and women love them. On top of that they can eat fast-food, not meditate, drink beer and go on Facebook and get away with it. They can do the things which would normally hurt someone and still do pretty well in life.
Now it is true that if someone gets lazy and has negative habits in their life then they will slide backwards. This applies to all people, however some people have a lot further to slide back then others, which is why they can get away with it more.
If you have had a difficult upbringing then the first thing to do is to acknowledge this. Accept that you’ve had a difficult life and that you are below the guys at the top.
When we have guys who had great childhoods come on bootcamp they always do fantastically well. Phone numbers, instant dates, kiss closes and full closes. The hard case newbies do well but it is more of a struggle. If you haven’t had a great upbringing then you can’t expect to get the same results as the guy who did.
While the great upbringing guy was being encouraged and praised, you might have felt ignored or put down. While the great upbringing guy was talking to girls at school, the hard case guy wasn’t. While the great upbringing guy was the captain of their school teams, the hard case guy was playing on the computer (like me). While the other guy was leading his social group, the hard case guy was trying just to “fit in” (again… like me).
For years the great upbringing guy had been gaining massive positive reference experiences and beliefs. The guy with the difficult background can’t expect to be the same level as the other guy on one bootcamp. He must accept that he’s not as good and that he is going to have to work a lot harder than the other guy just to catch up.
Now if you think you are probably going to have to work really hard at this then don’t despair quite yet! The good news is that in time you could become MUCH better than the other guy!
It is all within your control, most reasons why someone is cool and confident come from learnt behaviours. There are not very many genetic factors that determine a cool guy and someone who is uncool.
There is no magic pill other than time and being willing to put the approaches in.
Was there a non-good-looking kid at your school who was really popular? Was there a ginger kid who was popular at your school? Was there a skinny kid who was popular at your school? Was there a kid with a big nose at your school who was popular?
If you look hard enough you will find counter examples of popularity and success for every negative stereo type out there. Genetics are rarely the defining factor. It all comes down to…..
A person’s beliefs about; themselves and their surrounding environment are the key. What’s great about this is that any person’s beliefs can be changed and improved. It is within your grasp to be as great as you want to be, it is 100% achievable.
Some people have harder journeys in life than others. If you are that difficult background newbie then you will have to be more consistent and disciplined. The advantage you gain over everyone else though will be the result of the difficult journey. Your journey will shape you, make you stronger and make you a better-rounded and deeper individual.
It is also possible for you to become better than the perfectly raised guy and more dynamic. The hard case newbie has a need and motivation to change because he isn’t getting what he wants. Self-help’s best-selling author Jim Collins said: “Good is the enemy of great”. People who are good don’t have that motivation to put the hard work in to reach mastery. The pain of not being even close to good will become the motivation to reach mastery over yourself and women…… if you want it enough.
Peace n Love,
Robert King (Kingy)
CEO and Lead Instructor at puamethod.com
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